Yesterday I found myself sitting in the doctors’ office wearing in an ill-fitting paper gown made for somebody several sizes smaller than me. Gratefully they’d provided a paper “blanket” to put across my lap but at this point it was allowing more coverage than just my lap and for that I was thankful.
Feeling like I’d […]

In the few weeks or so we should have our copies of Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships written by sexpert Tristan Taormino. The reviews are in and this book is landmark. Not only is Tristan’s writing accessible and relevant to people considering exploring polyamory but it’s also great for folks […]

I recently came across an article on AVN.com which discussed a claim made by a Leighton Professor of Law at Northwestern University in his paper Porn Up Rape Down that “a decline in reported rape of 85% in the past 25 years can be tied to an increase in pornography consumption.”
As a woman in this […]

I care about the environment. I care about being “green” and try to “do my part”, whether at work or in my personal life. I buy organic. I recycle, reuse and try to reduce. I compost. I buy composting baggies for picking up my dog’s waste (http://www.ecoanimal.com/poopbags.html) . Heck, I buy composting […]

A few months back my girl boyfriend and I were out with another couple – very cute double date style but more laid back than fancy. Working in the adult industry I tend to be the default go-to when friends have questions about toys, dildos or anything sex related. And since my sig other also […]