I haven’t written anything in ages between the flu, V-day and makin/breakin up I have been wiped out.
But recently a co-worker had sent an email asking about feedback about menopause. At first the email didn’t even register to me. What does a 29 year old man know about menopause? More than you might think. I […]

oh you mean Non-trans men ya that sounds better.
Oh is he a bio-guy? I have heard this question a lot to distinguish between trans folks and “biological” men.
I usually just let this stuff roll off my back but lately it has been poking at me. I now use the term “non-trans man” insteand of bio […]

I would name it Rectal Foreign Body. It would be a hard rock band. In all seriousness and not so seriousness RFB refers to something in your bum that shouldn’t be there. A lost dildo, banana, vibe, carrot etc. Recently a co-worker of mine had a person call in a panic stating that […]

Pthalates they are in some of your sex toys, your food, your eyeliner!! oh the horror or is it?
Pthalates are the stinky chemicals that softens plastics. There are a score of different Pthalates some more diabolical than others. What is the scare? Well some folks link the chem. to hormone irregularities, reproductive issues, and potential […]

A customer the other day asked me about alternatives to latex gloves because her partner was developing an allergy. No probs I get this question all the time.
Simple answer: Nitrile gloves
She then asked about latex allergies. I explained that it is different for different people some folks will just get a small rash and others […]