The Journal of Sexual Medicine recently published some Australian research showing that BDSM practitioners are no more likely than their vanilla counterparts to have been coerced into sexual activity and are no more likely to be unhappy or anxious. In fact, men who engage in BDSM scored significantly lower on a scale of psychological distress […]

The Associated Press announced today that lesbian activist Del Martin died at the age of 87. For those of you who are unfamiliar with lesbian history and don’t feel like checking out the wikipedia article about her, here’s a brief summary.
Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon, her partner of 55 year, founded the Daughters of Billitis, […]

So me and Kuono were at 6th and Mission in San Francisco, on our way back from a meeting. It’s a little seedy there, and somewhat aromatic. I know that combination evokes memories of tasty dinner rolls, but it’s not that kind of seedy and aromatic. There’s an “adult store” on the corner and while […]

I just ran across the NBC gallery of the Olympic beach volleyball competition. Apparently, the players use hand signals to indicate what their strategy for the next point will be. Now, that’s all well and good. But is it just me, or does this article seem like an excuse to get one more look at […]

A man went over to his girl’s place for a little bit of nookie between the sheets. He presented her with three choices of condom — gold, silver, or bronze.
“Silver,” she said.
“Why not gold?” he asked.
“Because I want you to come second for once!”
(You may benefit from adding this at the end.)