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So… I got a fabulous customer on the phone the other day asking for advice on learning to talk dirty to her partner in bed. She had asked if there were any video’s on the subject or any films that might give her ideas of what to say. There is one video I can think of on the subject that we used to carry for sale but now only rent, called Talk to Me, Baby! It’s a great queer video by Shar Rednour featuring mostly dyke couples and a couple straight folks, though I think anyone could learn a bunch from it.
As far as inspirational videos, however… In mainstream porn, most films have nasty dialogue going on that you could take a line or two from. What is easier to reccomend are the actors who are known for their spectacular slut-speak performances. My favorites? Tory Lane, Belladonna, Gianna, and Joanna Angel. The are also a couple of male performers known to inspire dirty dialogue as well… off the top of my head I would suggest looking for titles with Manuel Ferraera and Nick Manning. Some titles to help get you started:
1. Evil Pink (all-girl with Belladonna)
2. Strap Attack 5 (strap-on with Gianna)
3. Jesse in Pink (wall-to-wall with Tory Lane)
4. Aqua Erotic (wall-to-wall with Nick Manning)
5. Expert Guide to Anal Sex (sex-ed with Manuel Ferrara)
These videos should give you some good ideas, but sometimes we’re still a little shy when it comes to actually delivering those lines in the moment.
If you’re having trouble saying nasty things to your partner, try talking dirty to yourself first. When you’re doing household chores practice delivering nasty one-liners louder than you actually would. That’ll make it easier to deliver them in a regular voice or a sultry whisper later on. Try talking to yourself in the shower, hell your already naked and wet! When you’re masturbating talk to yourself… Tell yourself what a nasty little whore you are, or how wet your pussy is, or how badly you want someone to smack your ass. The important part here is to find out what turns you on. Hopefully talking to yourself will help you find out what you inner slut sounds like… It’s kinda exciting, you don’t really know who you’ll be until you try it.
Don’t kick yourself if you don’t like talking dirty… You can even just try verbalizing what you’re feeling to your partner. This is the biggest reason people talk dirty in my opinion. It’s a way to communicate your desires to your partner without making them feel as though they’ve been doing something wrong. You can always try just telling your partner when you like something. “That feels sooooooo good” sounds better than “Ooh.”
And a Sex Tip of the Day for you…
Next time you masturbate pretend you’re a porn star or a stripper or a domme. Dress up, fantasize, and perform for yourself. Talk to yourself or pretend to talk to a partner, you could even set up a camera and talk to that. Pretending you’re someone else is a great way to find your inner slut.
So Nasty,
Red Delicious
