People often ask me what I mean when I say “sex-positive” and it’s not an easy thing to answer. So let me step back a bit…

Sex-negativity is the belief that sex is inherently bad, or dangerous, or sinful, or wrong. This is an old idea which you can trace back through the centuries. But if you think that it doesn’t still affect us today, remember that until a few decades ago, it was rare to find someone who would publicly state that it’s OK to have sex for any purpose other than reproduction.

I’m constructing a masturbating bike machine for Burning Man.
Tonight I’m going to try out some prototypes. I’m designing a vibrating bike seat. I have two ideas. The less powerful and not so green version is to attach a bullet vibe under the seat or a remote vibe (with the controls attached to the handle bars). […]

My Co-Worker Judi B. just passed this along to me. I copied the info as follows below, but just want to pipe in that I’ve tried it from my mobile and it works great!
Everyone can use this bit of knowledge, but I hope that educators and folks working with youth especially get this info out […]

I get many calls, emails, and AliveChats from heterosexual couples seeking toys to spice up their sex life. We have a couple of great resources on our website for these needs.

You may have seen an survey results floating around on major media recently claiming they have the answers as to “why we have sex.” Like most things media, be critical with what you read. (Even this!)
Cory Silverberg, of About.com wrote a fabulous critique of the survey. Pause everything you’re doing and read this first: Weird […]