I confess that I have not yet even brought myself to watch Boys Don’t Cry AT ALL. Why? Because I know how it ends, people, and I do not feel I need to be reminded of gender-and-orientation-based murderation on a regular cinematic basis. But some people, you see, *do* need this, so the genius of Brokeback Mountain is to remind people, at a moment when gay marriage is still so fraught a topic, why splitting up couples like Ennis and Jack is not going to save hetero marriage. Kudos to the best Queeers-for-Straight-People movie I’ve seen lately.

The Cone

Tis the holiday season around here which means that are gobs of new toys to play with. The first item on my list for Santa was The Cone. Something about its smooth pink latex shape drew me to it. When it popped up on our website a few weeks ago I immediately began surfing […]

Google has not been friendly to sex toy shops lately. Some of you may have noticed that our organic listings have almost complete disappeared from Google’s search results. A search for “Good Vibes” on google now leads to tons of results on the Good Vibes song but completely ignores the existence of goodvibes.com! They say […]

So ’tis the holiday season for egg nog, non-gender specific ginger persons cookies and Mystletoe, santa’s premier and friendly North Pole ho.
My ho-liday weekend was filled with lots of love and orphans. Lots of orphans. An orphan in the ho-liday dictionary is described as a person who does not return to their immediate/blood related […]

Dammit!
I just read a study that basically said that this whole missing my kid thing is NEVER going to get better! Apparently you go through three stages when you’re separated from “a loved one.” First, there’s a sort of constant disappoinment every time you encounter something that makes you remember them, then because you’re body […]