I have a confession to make.
I don’t like porn movies.

Yep…that’s right. Open minded, kinky, liberal Wildchyld isn’t turned on by porn.
I used to be when it was new to me. I adored the hot, well lit artful erotic XXX movies by Michael Ninn
or Andrew Blake. My favorite was a movie called Latex that had some really freaky scenes involving fake cum and yellow dishwashing gloves (not in the same scene though).

Lately, I find that even Latex does nothing for me. It just looks like a bunch of people attempting to convince me that sex is exciting rather than actually BEING exciting. Perhaps it’s because I’ve spent time on the other side of the lens and have seen how uncomfortable most porn sets are. Angles are designed for ascetics rather than for sexual pleasure and many of the women clearly are faking their pleasure. It could also be because I know how bitchy certain actors can be offset and their attitudes have turned me off over time, who knows!

I do enjoy the occasional amateur scene, where you can barely tell what is happening on screen because the camera is so jaggedy and the camera man is clearly nervous. I like knowing that I am witnessing something pure and unrehearsed, a glimpse into an actual bedroom rather than a cold, studio set.

I also see tremendous value in educational erotica like Anal Massage for Relaxation and Pleasure.
These videos give new ideas about how to enjoy sex in a realistic manner rather than leaving the viewer confused about why that girl screamed in pleasure in a position that looked downright painful.

Right now I have high hopes for our Amateur Erotic Film Competition. Perhaps one of you out there can bring me back from my anti-porn exile!

I’d love to see some monogamous, kinky sex that is obviously not staged. (Monogamy is a form of safer sex by the way) I dare you to submit something that turns me on. If you do, I promise that I’ll post about it here.

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