Am I Normal?
By Wildchyld • Aug 18th, 2006 • Category: BlogAm I Normal?
I’ve worked with a number of different sex education groups over the years and by far the most often asked question is “Am I normal?”
The short answer: Yes!
If you’ve thought of it, chances are that someone else has already done it….probably often! If a sex act is consensual and safer sex guidelines are taken into consideration than go for it!
To quote Alfred Kinsey “The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform.”
In the realm of fantasy, the realm of “normal” sometimes even goes beyond the realm of what is physically possible. I used to have some excellent dreams involving funky things like tentaclelike, plantlife. Sometimes I think I would make an excellent manga writer. Exploring the impossible through fantasy is not only normal it’s a healthy way to express different sides of your sexual self without having to worry about std’s, consent, or cleanup!
Still worried? Why not call San Francisco Sex Information. They answer “am I normal” questions on their hotline regularly. Sometimes hearing a friendly voice saying “Yes, You’re normal!” can be just the thing you need.
Wildchyld is a cake eater.
Wildchyld is an activist, adult performer, web geek, and graduate student studying couples therapy. She hopes to change the world one orgasm at a time.
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