Thank you so much for posting your comment. Let me start with the disclaimer that I am not a medical doctor, so double check my comments with your MD. Having a hysterectomy does often change the way you experience sexuality. After a hysterectomy, uterine contractions that accompany an orgasm no longer occur (some women are very sensitive to these contractions while others barely notice them). If ovaries are removed along with the uterus hormonal changes in testosterone and estrogen levels can also change the way that your body responds sexually. There is also the possibility that some nerves were damaged during the surgery. It is getting more and more common for doctors to use “nerve sparing” techniques to minimize the impact on sexual functioning.

Judah and Judi B. finish their Q & A about gay boy and gay girl sex….
Judah: Is cunnilingus a must?
JB: YESSSS!!!!! Wait, did I scream that? Well, maybe not EVERYONE would agree, but I think the general consensus would be something like: YESSSS!!!!
Here’s a funny story. A friend of mine had a friend who […]

Work is work, no matter what you do. Right? Well, yes and no. Here at the GV corporate offices, you’ll find us faxing, emailing, running reports, having meetings, discussing sales numbers, and so on. That’s the “yes” part.
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I know I said that I’d cover lube stuff in this blog, and I will, but first I must say something else.
Much of my job is spent reassuring people that what they want/need/love/get excited by is healthy, okay, and normal (a word which means everything and nothing at once). I give […]

I wasn’t born this way. I had to be trained.
I, like many untaught people, laughed at lube, and thought it was only for those who had problems that I would never (ever) have. A friend in high school asked the nurse practitioner at our local clinic what to do about dryness. […]