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Having bigger body parts can making shopping online for sex toys difficult. It’s often hard to judge whether something will work with your anatomy or not. Some toys are more compatible than others when your proportions are ample!
If you have a large belly finding a toy with a longer handle can make things much easier. There’s nothing more frustrating than realizing that your arm isn’t long enough to comfortably reach your clitoris!
My favorite is the Hitachi Magic Wand. Not only is it almost a foot long but it’s massively powerful. It’s easy to lay back and enjoy the ride when you have so much power and length to work with. They even make excellent G Spotter Attachments that you can pop onto the head of the vibrator for insertion that you can take off to clean. The silicone version is neat, but I find the cheaper blue vinyl version to be sturdier for probing between the folds of a plump mons.
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| Vinyl Attachement |
Many vibrators designed to be worn during penetration can be amazing fun on thinner bodies don’t work quite well with meaty vaginas. Strap on Butterfly vibrators sometimes can sit on the outside of the vaginal lips but not have enough depth to them for reaching the clitoris buried beneath. It’s extremely frustrating to put on a toy like this and realize that it doesn’t quite reach! The straps also only fit up to a 45 inch waist and 30 inch thighs which can cause secondary problems. If you’re plump and in the market for a wearable vibrator, you might want to consider avoiding products that sit on the outer lips if you’re looking for good clitoral action.
When in doubt, a Pocket Rocket might work just as well. It doesn’t have straps to hold it in place, but often your lips or a pair of underwear can do the work for you. If you’re looking to wear it during penetration, just place the vibrator on your clitoris and clench your thighs together holding it in place. If you’re mixing this technique with penetration it your partner may love the tight feeling that comes from clasping your legs together. If your partner likes rear entry (vaginal or anal) laying on your stomach with a pocket rocket on your clitoris and your legs together can be a very comfortable and easily reached position. If you’re more interested in the thrill of wearing a vibe out of the house, tight pants or underwear will easily help to hold it in place as your buzz your way through town.
Years ago it was impossible to find a decent harness if you had large hips, these days it’s getting easier! The Missy G works well for hips up to size 60. The only issue I have with this product is that the upper edges of the leather tend to poke into my belly a bit and I’d rather have something soft and comfy. I’m keeping my eyes open for better material and even larger sizes but thus far 60 seems to be the largest I’ve come across.
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| Missy G |
An alternative solution is using a harness free double toy. Double dildos can be fun but often a pain if they’re not long enough. A good solution is use a Coupler to connect two dildos that you already know work well for you. This neat device allows you to turn two of your favorite dildos into a double dildo. If your partner is a different size than you this method allows you to pick two harness compatible dildos of different lengths or girths and combine them together to make the ideal combination.
– Wildchyld
